How do I complain on a boy coming to marriage with me without my involvement despite no connection with him though he had an illegal affair?
07.06.2025 00:35
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In these modern time of high quality lifestyle, you don't need to compete at work! You're getting paid enough! The husband's WIFE will give him competition; he will have to compete with her hot, muscular and big sized ex and hope that she's enjoying more than what she used to with him. Surely competition is healthy! She's now making her husband feel MUCH more secure now!
Source: personal life. Observations since school.
But there's just 1 thing her husband should dread about. Meeting her ex, because he can always say on his face that he slept with and she as loud! There goes your self esteem/pride/ego whatever... So he should live rest of his life hoping he never meets her ex or avoiding him.
They start having a BF at school and then have 10 to 15 fuck buddies/BF (oh, it’s the same thing, with the same end result) in collage, then get hymenoplasty done to lie and do an arranged marriage with a IIT/IIM virgin guy who lives in an illusion throughout his life.
Forget no. of men she had sex with because now (because of the HUGE amount of experience), she doesn't take these things privately; she's more open to the idea of casual sex -- but that doesn't matter. A divorce even matters less because she's open to the idea of changing guys so often; but that's good she's an independent women.
The job of a husband in India is to provide the 'family' and ensure that the wife has a good time 'financially' (because compared to her hot and handsome but low earning ex, the husband's performance will be negligible). So nowadays what a women needs from her husband is his semen (that too it's not know if it'll be used since 7/10 urban married women cheat) and his salary so she and her child can be taken care off.
Whenever the husband whacks/whacked off porn -- realize that she was doing the same thing that the pron star was doing with her attractive ex. But it was a LOT more intimate. They tried 100 of different poses for hours on end; and she was screaming sooo much out of joy! And she bonded so well with him thereafter. But she's done now and is old. You don't need to perform like that! Just relax; you're just a provider
Ignore the fact that the girl cannot live single -- she NEEDS a guy to fill her loneliness and when you're away, she has plenty of exes to call. Very self sufficient girl. She'll never complaint about her loneliness to her husband.
How can you maintain self-control?
In case the husband believes she tells him everything; he should also ask about her exes and the things they did in private. Such intimate sharing of feeling and emotions must increase bonds with her husband!!
Then if the girl remembers her ex -- the good old days (oh, he was so good in everything except for things that matter in marriage), she can share it to her husband. He'll TRY to be something like him. Finally he's a substitute; a compromise to her original choice who left her. He can also arrange a meetup (in a hotel room) with her ex to relieve the nostalgia. She'll always be eager.
Ignore the fact that her past was with guys whom there was no future with -- these were essentially flings -- temporary attractive BFs who were not marriage material and where WAY over her level. And yes -- they where much more attractive and performed better than her husband, so he doesn't need to worry about his performance; all her fantasies are done in the past. The husband just needs to earn a good amount of money so she her (non-sexual) needs remain satisfied. And you can believe whatever the excuse she makes to prove that her past was not a fling; just 'accidental' relationships. She's a girl with the prefect character after all.
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I would not be concerned about complains. But I’ve proof that you are a chootiya if you did not break up with the marriage immediately.
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To add more advantages to a girl with an ex, in case she has a fight with her husband, she can always take revenge by calling up her ex and having sex with him to prove and brag about how much her husband sucks. She has the liberty -- she's an independent modern women with many Exes.
What have you learned from your parents' mistakes?
At that time she was young. She was looking for something different at that time -- good sex, attractive guys, good company. Now that she's old, she's looking at HER HUSBAND. Because now she had enough and he was just not hot enough to handle her youth. Glad he's now with her older version when she's so stable and has a good character.
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The husband is glad that he is (hopefully) the last. Because he is just 1 of her many BF. It's nothing new to her. She has done the same things many times before. Just that her husband is a better provider (and 'fun' was better with her ex).
What toxic behavior has been normalized by society?
Copy references from Rangeel Singhal's answer to Why is it that we romanticize old relationships once they’re over even though we were unhappy in them?
Her husband is a savior. She was rejected by sooo many guys after having 1 night strands or whatever; but now her husband her SO smart to marry her.
She's sooo much dedicated to her husband that she didn't think twice about loosing her virginity. Maybe assuming that he'll be ok with her fling with guys who are MUCH more attractive and satisfying than him -- but just earn less, so do not make good husbands but great BFs and flings!
What is the cost of living in Sweden as a family?
Being a girl is all about relationships and flings -- because it's soo easy and has no consequences (YEAH!!). So sleep with 200 guys and then marry a hardly experienced guy because things are MEANT to be like this.
Now this byproduct girl is old needs a husband before she reaches 30s; so she’s thrown into the arranged-marriage arena. Where she’ll be married to a IIT/IIM nerdy guy who is neither romantic nor performs good in bed and he only does it for making kids.
Yes, forget her past, ignore it (it’s so old school to remember it). She is a good girl now. She was a bad girl then.
What would you do if you were lost at sea in the Florida Keys?
Gone are the good old days when she had a BF with a big penis who satisfied her well and they had a great time together (because he was so 'hot' personal wise and looked so good even though he was poor -- but money was not what she wanted at that time (while you where working hard in college)). Why they don’t marry their BFs? That’s because the guy dumped her after heavily using her because he was way over her level or he was not marriage material (the girl was just in for a fling) — this includes relationships where the girl/guy are of the same age, have religious/cast incompatibility (which she could’ve figured out before they entered into a relationship, but at that time it didn’t matter because she was just in for a fling); then she'll sugar quote her past relationship that -- no it was serious, they where in love bla bla bla...
Then personality wise they suck real time. It’s a wise choice not to give them any attention. Just ignore them. In case you get to lay your hands upon them them use them throw them away like a used condom. This’s what they deserve.
Copy references from Rangeel Singhal's answer to Why is it that we romanticize old relationships once they’re over even though we were unhappy in them?
And if the husband did not have any ex before -- he'll be happy to know that while he was struggling with girls, life and carrier, his wife was having flings with guys whom she accepted a relationship over him -- finally her priority was different at that time (big, muscular, interesting guys). Now it's all about salary, stability and being a good boy; therefore we gave the current husband and dining over his hard work. And it's great for the girl! She'll get a guy whome she'll get 100%, while he'll get a girl who is torn apart between her various Exes.
Beautiful girls are loose character.
But the difference from earlier types is that, now a women has like 4 to 5 BFs before getting married. Why they don’t marry their BFs? That’s because the guy dumped her after heavily using her because he was way over her level or he was not marriage material (the girl was just in for a fling) — this includes relationships where the girl/guy are of the same age, have religious/cast incompatibility (which she could’ve figured out before they entered into a relationship, but at that time it didn’t matter because she was just in for a fling). Then she'll sugar quote her past relationship that -- no it was serious, they where in love bla bla bla...
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